This kind of existence requires a personal commitment to stop looking at "what's wrong with everyone else" and realize that sometimes, we are the ones who tracked the mud into the relationship; we are the ones who said the wrong thing or behaved poorly.  It's a tough pill, but it's true.  Think about it.  How many of us are still being influenced by something someone said or did to us a child? ...in high school? ...before a breakup? ...after we got married? ...just last week?  Some of the things we carry in our subconcious influence our current actions and belief systems more than we realize.  They reside so deep that we aren't always prepared with a constructive method to handle them when triggered. They are the main drivers of unresolved misunderstandings.

  This is where the beauty of UBU as a practical message of God's grace is realized. Until one is ready to look at themselves and (in spite of themselves) make changes to improve their relationships, attitude towards others and outlook on life, they will continue to see "others" as the problem.  Thus the downward spiral and unhealthy relationships continue.  The road that leads to self-awareness, harmony with others and purposeful living is not free of bumps and challenges...but the rewards are SO great for those who find the courage to make the "bumpy" journey!  

I have committed the past 11 years to the ideals of UBU and haven't a single doubt that its practical messages of hope, perseverance and positive change are a gift to those who are ready to break through, overcome against the odds and triumph - God's magnificent way!

Use this website as a tool for ongoing encouragement and uplift. Don't try to read everything all at once; but return as often as you need to and 'stay' as long as you like.  The road to self-discovery is not easy, but it can be amazing, revealing and life-changing - I am a confident witness to that fact and am committed to helping as many people as I can find the freedom to be themselves and live lives of authenticity and harmony with others.  

Are you ready?  If so, I invite you to join me on this rewarding journey. Everything I share is divinely inspired and presented as God presented it to me.  Sometimes raw...other times bold.  You can't timidly change your life...you have to be BOLD, be COURAGEOUS and be CONFIDENT in what God's Word says about you, your life and your POWERLESS circumstances. You are SO loved and SO blessed.  You are SO triumphant and SO victorious!  You are SO divinely favored.  UBU says, "Let's act like it!". 

To date, our supporters span the US, Philippines, Greece, Singapore, Israel, Indonesia, Czech Republic, Morocco, Italy, Germany, Poland, Tunisia and Guam.  I am grateful to you all.

Welcome to UBU.  Let's go...